Wednesday, 30 October 2013

Was I being Petty?... A Pet's Blessing... God In His Goodness...





 
 


22nd 23rd and 24th September I was serving the Glasgow Central Spiritualist Church (SNU) Berkley Street, Glasgow... 26th – I went North-East to the Arbroath Spiritualist Centre (SNU)....

29th – I attended the Coatbridge Spiritualist Church where the music for the hymns is provided by  Robert on guitar.  This fairly lifts the atmosphere.

30th –A few miles south to the Cumnock Spiritualist Church.  As the town hall is being renovated the service took place in a hall close by.

1st October I travelled the short distance to the Shining Light Spiritualist Church Kilmarnock.

3rd – I was at ASK Dunfermline giving a talk on “How Spirit Work with Us”...

5th September – was my second last workshop of the year at The Glasgow Association of Spiritualists, Somerset Place, Glasgow. (SNU). The last workshop taking place on 9th November, 10am – 4pm...

6th – Although called the Friendship of Love and Light Spiritualist Church it will always be known as Eddie’s Church after the founder and well loved Spiritualist Medium Eddie Docherty.  This is in Foxbar, Paisley.

9th – A busy day in Edinburgh with a demonstration of Clairvoyance and sittings at the Parapsychology College in the afternoon and then again a demonstration of clairvoyance at the Sir Arthur Conan Doyle Centre (SNU) in the evening...

10th –Development Circle...

11th – 15th  A busy but enjoyable time at The Glasgow Association for Spiritualists, Somerset Place Glasgow taking an Open Circle, sittings and four services.
 
 
 
 
 
                                                     WAS I BEING PETTY?
 A few weeks ago I was stopped by a lady in the street and asked if I had time to fill in a questionnaire.
I agreed and we were met with a hurdle at the very first question – “What is your religion?”  I said “Spiritualist” and after a few seconds I heard the lady mutter “Other”.  “No” I said “Spiritualist”.  She told me that there was no box for “Spiritualist” and I would have to be entered under “others”.
I tried to go for a compromise in suggesting that “Spiritualist” was written at question-1 or that it would be mentioned in one of my answers.  No” she said “My job is only to tick boxes and I cannot write anything down”.  So as neither of us was prepared to budge I walked away without trying to be too impolite.
Was I being petty?
The early pioneers of Spiritualism struggled hard to get Spiritualism accepted as a religion and although our numbers are not near the same of the main religions I don’t feel we should be passed off as “others”.  I accept that it may be going over the top in expecting a box for all the smaller religions but surely a blank space where “Spiritualism” or another religion could be recorded?
 
 
 
          A Pet’s Blessing...  
 
A church in this area held its annual service ‘the blessing of pets’.  I cannot think of any Spiritualist Church with holds a service for pets, there may be some but I have not heard of one.  Surely this is something that we must rectify, as just think how often a pet is mentioned from the platform and that it is waiting to greet its owner/friend when it is their turn to move over to the higher side of life.  Often from the platform dog, cat horse, parrot etc is mentioned.  Not only that but the correct breed, colour markings, showing beyond doubt that like us our hairy/furry friends live on and will be sharing the Spirit World with us.
 We love our pets and that bond will not be broken by our little - and maybe not so little – friends when they reach the end of their life in this dimension.  The love between us will be as strong as ever and we all know that it is love that links us with the Spirit World.  Moving over to the Spirit World and finding our furry friends were not there waiting for us would be meaning part of the family was missing...
 
 
                                                                 Antiques...
 
I have always found a great interest in visiting antique shops and fairs.  It is amazing the vibrations one can sense in such places – positive and negative.
 I try never to stop at objects that are pleasant to my eye. But at those which have great love coming from them.  Usually this is from items at the lower end of the price scale In fact, in a great many cases they are small pieces of paste jewellery costing only a few pounds.  I often wondered if this was  the only piece of jewellery the previous owner possessed.
 
It is an added bonus when you sense something from an item and then can quiz the dealer about it.  If they happen to know something about the item's history, it is amazing how often their information can correspond with what you have been sensing.
 
 
 
                                      God in His Goodness
 
God in his goodness has provided us with everything we need (not want) to survive.  Everything in our natural environment has a purpose.  All forms of life are inter=dependent on one another...
For instance, flowers and plants have very varied functions.  Flowers provide food and resting places for bees and other insects.  Have you ever watched an insect resting on a leaf washing its face?
Their beautiful colours and exquisite perfumes bring us such joy and upliftment of our spirits.  We use flowers to help us express our emotions such as love, gratitude, celebration and sorrow in bereavement.  Some flowers can be used for medicinal purposes e.g.; we get digitalis from foxgloves to make the drug  ‘digoxin’ used to reduce a patient's pulse rate.  Roses and many others are used in Bach Flower Remedies.  We can even eat some flowers e.g. nasturtiums in salads.  Many plants and trees are used as medicine as well as providing shelter for many birds, animals and insects.  Trees provide us with food fuel and timber for the construction of homes, furniture and a myriad of other things.  Trees also absorb the carbon dioxide from our environment.
Flowers plants and trees like us possess a spirit body.  Two men, Samuel Hahnemann, the founder of homoeopathic Medicine, and Rudolph Steiner. The founder of anthroposophy and founder of the Steiner Schools were spiritually developed enough to be able to see these spirit bodies and were able to determine which ailments the various flowers, plants and trees could be able to treat.
 We have a great deal to be thankful to God for.  The very best we can do to express our gratitude is to preserve and respect the whole of the natural world and to protect it for future generations to come, because all of nature, even the tiniest insect has a very important part to play in our eco system... 
 
Margaret Garrow - Inspired by Spirit..
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Wednesday, 2 October 2013

Keeping Our Religion A Religion...




3rd September saw me take a short journey along the A736 to take the service at ASK Neilston.  Sheila Caruthers founder and president of ASK is an excellent medium in her own right.  Sheila started attending a spiritualist church as a young girl and has accumulated a wealth of knowledge which she is willing to share with others.  So anyone wishing to dip their toe in the water so to speak and learn a little more about spiritualism and their psychic abilities could think of visiting the Glen Halls, Main Street,  Neilston at 7.30pm on a Wednesday where they will be made welcome.  The Divine Service is help in the same Halls on a Tuesday evening at 7.30.

4th – An interesting night being interviewed on Spiritualism.  My comments will not appear in the media but hopefully it will enlighten those of another religion on what our beliefs are.  This particular church is having nights during the winter looking into various other religions.  This church felt Spiritualism so far removed from their own beliefs, the clairvoyance, that they did not feel it appropriate to invite someone of our religion along to talk to them.  But that they were including Spiritualism in their winter discussions of “Other Religions” I felt was a big step forward form them and I agreed on this interview”.

5th - It was my pleasure once again to take a church’s development group.

8th – I let the train take the strain as I attended the Perth Spiritualist Church (SNU).  Often know as the “wee church with the big heart”.

11th –I was asked to be guest at a private circle which has been sitting for over two decades.

12th – I attended The White Dove Spiritualist Church, Toryglen, and Glasgow, where there was the usual big turnout....

16th – 20th... We took a few days away to Blackpool and took the opportunity to meet up with a few psychic researchers that I am often in contact with via the Internet.





                                            Keeping Our Religion – A Religion...
 
 

These days, many religions are hitting the headlines because of in-fighting and /or other misdemeanours.  So far spiritualism has escaped this kind of public scrutiny, probably because our numbers are small and few outside our organizations think of Spiritualism as a religion.  But are we helping ourselves to be looked upon as a religion? I do not think we are. Currently, because of our own actions, we are more like a money making entertainment business than a true religion. If we claim to be Spiritualists, then we should all look on ourselves as "Ambassadors for Spirit" and act accordingly.  We have to look at what others will think of Spiritualism and Spiritualists, by our actions.

Take social networks, they should be a shop window for our religion, but often if we look through the posts of Spiritualists, we see a messy little corner shop rather than the superstore which it should be.   Comments on social networks can be detrimental to our religion when Spiritualists condemn each other there.  Some of this condemnation may be justified, but should not be aired in such a public forum.  I have not noticed such behaviour taking place with other religions.  So what will non-spiritualists think of us? 



There have been comments on social networks that a child may have disrupted a service for a short time, what other religion would complain at than.  And further comments that children should not attend our services till they are a certain age.  This gives the impression that we are not a child friendly religion.  Yet the SNU is more than happy for children to attend churches, unless of course they are very disruptive in which case one would assume the parent would take them outside or perhaps into another room until they settle down”.  Common sense prevails...  And we have to remember we have Christian and non-Christian Spiritualist Churches... With the former – who said “Suffer little children and let them come to me?”  
 
I have noticed that some of our churches, when advertising on social media, the next medium to work for them, come out with comments which are more suited to advertising an entertainment, than a religious service.  And after the service, it can be even worse, when they describe the medium’s work.  There are religious organizations that have regular guest speakers and there avert in the local newspaper will go something like “The guest speaker for Sunday evening will be Mr Smith from ****” Is that not more professional and more akin to a religion?
The aim of Spiritualism is to affect an at-one-ment and unison of Humanity with God until every action and thought of Humanity is in perfect harmony with the Divine Will."
(Adapted from the Spiritualists' Lyceum Manual)
Maybe our church committees should aim for increased ‘at-one-ment with the congregation by an informal meeting once a year, for everyone to have their say.  As I mentioned in an earlier blog, use a suggestion box in an easily accessible place.  Some will say “We have our AGM and that is the place to comment on likes and dislikes about the church," but as we all know the “Any other business" is usually at the end of the AGM, when many want the meeting to finish. 
To put a more presentable face on our religion, there are other ways we could behave more professionally.  I have seen those new to Spiritualism look surprised after a service, as the medium takes their diary out and books people for non church related private sittings.  Is this using the church as a source for financial gain?  Then there is another way to look at it.  Many churches have monthly private sittings to help pay their expenses, as the freewill offering does not cover all the costs. So taking such a booking is taking much needed income away from the church.
Then there are high profile mediums who breeze into town with their name in lights outside a theatre, or posters all over the town about their show.  Do these mediums/psychics ever check if their display is going to clash with a local spiritualist church’s service?  They don’t have to do this if they do not serve churches but surely those who do, should be more considerate to the local churches. If they don’t maybe it is time for churches to think twice before booking such mediums in the future for their services.
Evenings of Clairvoyance for charity have always been, and always will be part and parcel of Spiritualism.  But there are many who think that the charity circuit is running out of control these days.  Should church mediums not stick to ‘charity nights’ run by spiritualist churches?   And churches limit charity nights to two a year? Another area for being more professional that we need to look at are evenings of clairvoyance taking place in pubs and clubs.  That may be fine for psychics or non church serving mediums but many, both within and out with Spiritualism, find it distasteful to a religion, when it involves a church serving medium or SNU award holder. H
The SNU policy about this is as follows;-
“SNU award holders are not prohibited from working in rooms in pubs and clubs.  The only stipulation is that they do not demonstrate mediumship in a room where alcohol is consumed”
On being asked if the Union would take action the reply was; -
Yes the Union would take action, and has done so, if any award holder is reported to them. I would expect award holders to uphold the dignity of Spiritualism, and maybe there are few feeling that way, but who administer Union affairs certainly think that way”.
But what of non SNU Award Holders – what is the Union's advice to their churches on those who do?
“Churches are autonomous and therefore have to make their own decisions on who they book to work on their platforms”
So the ball is in the court of church committees.
There need be no conflict if the churches make sure they are first and foremost representing a religion and those who take to their platforms think and act in the same way.  Those wishing to use their talents for entertainment or financial gain go their own way not hang on to the coat tails of Spiritualism which is a religion. 
If we are going to save Spiritualism as a religion, it is time for the splitting of the ways.  Spiritualism should let it be known that many of the ‘readings’ that have attached themselves on to us, are nothing to do with what we are about. We should think what Spirit’s view is on all this and also take into account the suffering that the pioneers of Spiritualism had to go though, to make Spiritualism a respectable religion. Also as a last word - what must Gordon Higginson, the longest serving President of the Spiritualists' National Union, over 23 years from 1970 to 1993 be thinking? He devoted much of his life to Spiritualism, becoming a Minister of the SNU as well as a teacher of mediumship and also Principal of the Arthur Findlay College at Stansted Hall.   Will all his work have been in vain?
 
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My next workshop at the Glasgow Association of Spiritualists 7 Somerset Ave, Glasgow,  G3 7JT  Saturday 5th October at 10am

 

Saturday, 7 September 2013

My Diary.... A Cergyman's View on Spiritualism... We look on ourselves as the Good Guys - BUT?



 
13th August I attended ASK Cumbernauld to the usual full house that one expects when visiting this church.
15th – Development Circle...
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8th I was off to the Albany Street Spiritualist Church, Edinburgh. (SNU)  Our capital city is always busy at this time of the year with the Edinburgh Festival - this year I found it busier than normal so it will be interesting to see if the numbers are up for this year.

20th At a discussion on Spiritual Healing...

22nd - Development Circle...

24th – My workshop at the Glasgow Association which was again well attended.

25th  - Kilmarnock Spiritualist Church. (SNU)

26th -  A change for me...Instead of being on the platform I sat in the congregation of Glasgow Association Spiritualist Church and after the service I enjoyed watching the church’s fledglings go through their paces.

28th   Taking part in a discussion on Spiritualism.

29th – I was at Langside Spiritualist Church

30th - Psychic research...

31st - I felt privileged to be asked to take part in psychic research in a well known area in Scotland – an area which has many myths and legends attached to it.  Unlike the previous evening there was a lot of activity here. I am sorry I cannot tell you any more at this stage but when the report is published I will let you all know.
 
 
 

A few years ago a clergyman stopped me and asked many questions on Spiritualism.  He said he knew about the basics of our religion but wanted to fill in the gaps.  At the end of our session he said he had been surprised to find there was a number of his congregation going to his church on Sunday and then also attending a spiritualist church on a Tuesday evening.
A few years later we met again just around the time the local spiritualist church was moving to a bigger hall and another spiritualist church was just about to open in the area.  He said - not in a nasty way - “I am not too worried.  I am not being disrespectful but I feel that many attend your church for a bit of entertainment”.
Recently we came into contact and again the conversation got around to religion.  I will only take one sentence from this conversation “”I am not worried about the drift away from my church to your religion as in the end they will come back to their home”.  Again the was not said in a nasty way and I did not take offence.
To be honest I could see that this clergyman has his finger on the pulse of what is going on and in many ways I have to agree with him.  There are those who look on a demonstration of clairvoyance as entertainment.  But as we all know there are demonstrations of clairvoyance that don’t take place in our churches and are not part of our Divine Services.
The comment “they will come back to their home” is perfectly true.  Many people attend a spiritualist church for years, yet in the end they go back to the religion they were born into for their wedding or funeral.  Usually only one or two members of a family attend a spiritualist church and when it comes to their funeral it is usually easier for the family to opt for a funeral conducted by one of the mainstream religions.  Although this seems to be changing as spiritualist funerals and naming ceremonies (christenings) are on the increase.  But I have not noticed much of an increase in spiritual weddings.  And we have a compromise with several joint funerals that I feel is an admirable in a way with two religions coming together at such a time...
But we all have free will and Spiritualism never force anyone to accept our way of thinking.  whether one looks on us as nothing more than entertainment – and many within our organization don’t help matters here – spiritualism has proved time and time again of not only proof of life after death but also that there can be communication between the two dimensions.
 

 
 
 Dana  - Spiritualist mediums do not "tell fortunes." They attempt to provide you with evidence of the survival of the human soul after death.
Blair – as you have only sat in two development circles so i would steer clear of trance workshops at the moment.  You have barely dipped your toe in the water as far as learning about  your psychic ability is concerned so stick to the basics.
And I would say the same to Jane... who has only sat in her fourth development circle and is not too keen on the programme for the month of October which dwells mainly on ‘trance’.  Tell your circle leader that is too much too soon and she should understand.  Well, hopefully she will understand or you should look for another development circle.
 
 
 
We have reached a stage where atrocities, no matter where they happen around the world, are relayed into our living rooms via our TV screens.  I feel that so many become immune to the suffering of others.  After all we have seen it all before in war and disaster movies.  But this time it is not actors playing the part but innocent men women and children being killed or maimed. 
In movies there always has to be a good guy and a bad guy and it is the same with atrocities all around the world.  But on many occasions the innocent civilian population caught in the centre of war zones find it hard to distinguish between the good and the bad guys.    
The chemical attack in Syria is horrific as it killed and injured so many innocent people.  But innocent men, women and children are dying every day by the actions of the so-called ‘good guys’ now and in the past Drone attacks, the use of Agent Orange, cluster bombs, using bullets and shells with depleted uranium on the tips of them.  Some of our allies are even today still manufacturing and exporting cluster bombs. 
Surely all human life is precious and it is not acceptable that anything goes as long as we take out the so-called ‘bad guy’?   We cannot use depleted uranium bullets and shells knowing that this will sign a death-warrant to many of our troops and civilians.  This cannot be acceptable as long as we win the battle.
It is easier to transport a negotiation table around the world than an army and may save more innocent lives?




Sunday, 11 August 2013

Capital Punishment... Spiritualism – The Second Religion... Automatic Writing... Run till they drop – DEAD... Roy Dutton’s – Dowsing... Wise words from Marcel Proust... And “Rainbow”. a poem by Lillian Wilson –

 

16th July I was on my way north to the Dalneigh Spiritualist Church Inverness to a great Highland welcome and a good turnout.
22 nd – I attended the Pollockshaws and District Spiritualist Church.  It was good to see Bill Thompson sitting in the congregation.  Bill a good medium in his own right and founder of this long running church.  Bill has not been too well recently  and has had to step back from church activities.  But he will not be too concerned as the church is in good hands with Margaret Ross, Irene and Susan at the helm.
25th  -Development Circle...
28th I was at ASK Dunfermline and this usually busy church and this night was no exception as there was a full house.
29th – A workshop... “Understanding your psychic abilities”.
31st – A workshop...                                               
7th August giving a talk... “Spirit are closer than you think”
During this time I have been receiving Indian Head Massage from a friend and I must say I have been receiving benefit from it.
 
 
 
With the conclusion of the case on the murder of little Daniel Pelka I have had several emails asking me as a spiritualist what are my views on capital punishment.
My main reason against capital punishment is that there is no guarantee that an innocent person will not be executed.  Many times in the past mistakes have been made and I can think of nothing worse than an innocent person being executed for a crime they did not commit.   But with the horrendous suffering and eventual death that little Daniel Pelka had to endure, I feel that there are exceptional cases where capital punishment may be the right sentence to fit the crime.    Maybe we should have capital punishment standing by on the sidelines for cases like this one.     
In Magdelena Luczak and Mariusz Krezolek we know we have those responsible. And although they will spend at least the next thirty-years in jail.  Every minute of every day they will be in fear of their lives.  It may be impossible to keep these two safe because of the hatred other prisoners will have towards them.  On top of that because of such a barbaric crime it will be hard for the most even tempered and disciplined officer to be civil to them.  Maybe this is one case where the death-sentence could be rolled out.  This crime has brought out the worst in so many, as they say what they would like to do to this evil pair. But we must not stoop to their level, or all is lost.  We live in a civilized society – not perfect – but fairly civilized.  We cannot go back to the dark ages because of this evil pair. 
Will this death of this little man finally be the wake up call to the authorities to act and not to say ‘sorry’ after such an incident?
 
 
 
Spiritualism seems to be the second religion of many people.  As well as attending churches of the religion they were born into they come along to our services.  Even regular attenders to our churches refer to the religion they were born into if asked what religion they are...  One clergyman I know was surprised how many of his flock attended spiritualist churches.  He said “I am not too concerned as they will always come back to their home”.  Two years later with the original spiritualist church in his area moving to bigger premise, and a second one opening, he confidently said “I think most attend these places for a bit of entertainment and nothing more”.  I have to agree with his last comment in a way.  There are those who look on our religion as entertainment and some in our movement are happy to have it look like entertainment to draw people in and to expand their ego...  But in general our churches fly the flag as “Spiritualism the Religion”.
Talking to a small group of spiritualists and non-spiritualists recently, all who had sampled our divine services admitted, after other religious services spiritualism was like a breath of fresh air.
One gentleman saidSpiritualism is an open and tolerant religion I am fee to come and go as I please.  I attend several of your churches in our area I do not confine myself to one church and no one cares”.
Another – “In your churches I feel free to discuss my doubts and concerns without being quoted a few ancient verses and looked upon as if I am a trouble maker”.
The best way I can think of your religion is that it is a thinking-person’s religion”.
I was a regular member at my spiritualist church for eleven years and never in that time did anyone force me to become a member.  Then I felt the time had come to enrol and I am glad I did.  Now as a member and now I can have a say on the running of the church.  Being a member of my old church/religion I never had any say in what went on”.
But not all positive remarks as one would expect...
“A thinking person’s religion?  I think that those who think about what is going, on instead of being carried away with the thought of the dead communication with us, will smell a rat and stay well away” commented one gentleman.
 
Automatic Writing
The ability to write intelligible messages without conscious control or knowledge of what is being written, sometimes called ‘trance’ writing.  The sceptics refer to this as no more than a parlour game
 I read three very spiritual poems that a lady had written while meditating.  She was surprised at the words when she looked at her writing pad after sitting meditation in her home. It took her all her time to write a letter to an aunt in a residential home in Canada, never mind poetry.  A friend told her that “This would be the dead writing through her” and that she should contact her local church.  This she did and was told that what was happening was demonic spirits taking control of the fingers.  As she had let them in once they would take control of her again and the clergyman went through a ritual to cleanse her.
 Luckily she had not taken the poems with her to the church or they certainly would have been destroyed.  In fact she was going to burn them when some friends asked to see the poems.  How on earth could such lovely verses have come from a demonic spirit?” they commented after reading them  This she accepted and kept the poems, eventually getting two printed in a magazine.   without revealing the story behind them.  I have lost touch with this lady and misplaced these poems; if I come across them I will print them on this site.
 In the past spirit has worked through me with automatic writing although not poetry.  In fact there are poems on this site by Annette Lavelle and writings by Carolyn Crockart only to mention two that come to my mind at the moment, my apologies to the others.
 And like everything else there can be frauds claim to be involved in automatic writing when that is not the case.  A fellow medium took a group recently and a gentleman showed her a lovely poem which came from spirit.  The medium felt she had heard it before and later it dawned on her that the poem was one she had learned at school.
 
 
 
 
 
The deaths of racehorses on the racetrack seem to be accepted as part and parcel of the sport, but I wonder how many of those who contribute to the racing industry by gambling realize the following.
 
Up to the end of July...of the sixty-eight horses ending their lives on British race courses in 2013 – 10 have collapsed and died during or immediately after a race... And this is called a sport?
 
      If I was writing a book on the subject the only title there could be is “RUN TILL THEY DROP – DEAD”  I am contacting the RSPCA to comment on this and will be interested in their reply.
 
 
The fourth and final part of Roy Dutton’s Dowsing.
 
 
Chapt.  4                         Conclusion.
 
  Unless the reader has experienced the mysterious crossing of two well-balanced rods during a serious dowsing session, he or she will probably consider the things described in this article to be just too incredible, despite my claims of scientific objectivity throughout. It is true, nevertheless, that my sole motivation has been to understand more about life’s mysteries. Indeed, my insatiable curiosity has led me to investigate other strange and uncommon human experiences as they have come to my attention throughout my life. Unadventurous people with closed minds are simply not on my ‘wavelength’.
         
The writing-up of my experiences as a dowser (or, more accurately, a diviner,  because water has been only incidentally involved in my activities) is part of my desire to communicate my findings during the experiments described here and during others of a different nature, to people who have been persuaded to close their minds to such subjective phenomena. In my view, all that we perceive is subjective, even those phenomena that have been categorised and presented by scientists ‘objectively’.  Each one of us is at the centre of our personal universe, from birth to death. No one else can exactly share our experiences in our personal location in Space and Time. Scientists are in this situation like everyone else, but, today many have tried to persuade people to the contrary.
         
I have tried to understand why those rods cross in response to some image held in my mind. The only feasible solution seems to be that very small (imperceptible) nervous impulses in my arms are created in the circumstances described, these producing minute changes in the balancing of the rods. At no time have I been aware of such changes. How I have managed to sense the location of the unseen imagined object, why the cross-over point of the rods should have been directly over the object sought for and what kind of signal was received by my body to produce those responses, I still have no clear idea.
 
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 Individuals I admire will continue in my next blog......................
 *  My next workshop will be at the Glasgow Association of Spiritualists, on 24th August at 10am....